HOLY MATRIMONY
“Then the Lord God said, ‘It is not good for the man to live alone. I will make a suitable companion to help him.’ ... That is why a man leaves his father and mother and is united with his wife, and they become one.”
— Genesis 2:18, 24
“The matrimonial covenant ... is by its nature ordered toward the good of the spouses and the procreation and education of offspring; this covenant between baptized persons has been raised by Christ the Lord to the dignity of a sacrament.”
— Catechism of the Catholic Church, 1601
Marriage is the Sacrament by which a baptized man and a woman freely establish between themselves a union - partnership - of the whole of life. This covenant of love is by its nature ordered toward the good of the spouses and the procreation and education of offspring; this covenant between baptized persons has been raised by Christ the Lord to the dignity of a sacrament (CCC, 1601). This covenant is made between a man and woman in front of God and lasts a lifetime. The love between married couples is as our Lord loves His Church. The ultimate goal of a married couple is to get their spouse, and children, to heaven.
Married couples live out their sacrament by the way they care for one another, love one another, and are enthusiastic for one another as husband and wife. In their daily love for each other, their children, and the larger community, they become a living sign (a sacrament) for all of how much Jesus loves us and wishes to embrace us as His brothers and sisters. As they work their way through marital and family crises and struggles, they are witness to the power of the Holy Spirit at work in all our lives.
In order to live out this ideal Christian marriage, couples must have the ability to give and receive love and to sustain an intimate relationship. They must also have a personal relationship with Jesus Christ and His Body, the Church.
Couples should contact the parish at least one year in advance to begin marriage prep and to schedule the wedding. For more information, please contact the Director of Liturgy, Bonnie Wurscher, at (651) 982-2224 or at bwurscher@stpeterfl.org.
Prayer for Married Couples
Almighty and eternal God,
You blessed the union of married couples so that they might reflect the union of Christ with his Church: look with kindness on them. Renew their marriage covenant, increase your love in them, and strengthen their bond of peace so that, with their children, they may always rejoice in the gift of your blessing.
We ask this through Christ our Lord.
Amen.
RESOURCES
CHURCH DOCUMENTS
The Church has written extensively on marriage and family. Here are some of the most recent and relevant documents.
Letter to Families – St. Pope John Paul II
The Family in the Modern World (Familiaris Consortio)
On Human Life (Humanae Vitae)
On Chaste Marriage (Casti Connubii)
ARTICLES
The Basic Theology of Marriage by Christopher West
Mercy and the Heart of Marriage by Sam Guzman
WEBSITES
For Your Marriage - For Your Marriage helps couples at all stages of life to understand and live God’s plan for happy, holy marriages by providing educational and spiritual resources. The website was launched in 2007 as part of the National Pastoral Initiative for Marriage, an initiative of the United States Conference of Catholic Bishops to communicate the meaning and value of married life for the Church and for society.
National Marriage Week USA - Every February 7-14
Love Means More - Love Means More (formerly Marriage: Unique for a Reason) is an initiative of the United States Conference of Catholic Bishops (USCCB), under the Committee on Laity, Marriage, Family Life, and Youth. Visit USCCB.org for more information.
Marriage Enrichment (USCCB)
Marriage Resources (USCCB)
Witness to Love - Witness to Love is a virtues-based, Catechumenate model of marriage renewal and preparation that integrates modern principles of psychology and the virtues to help couples facilitate an authentic dialogue about their relationship.
BOOKS
Theology of the Body for Beginners by Christopher West
Good News about Sex & Marriage: Answers to Your Honest Questions about Church Teaching by Christopher West
The Good, the Messy, and the Beautiful: The Joys and Struggles of Real Married Life by Edward and Beth Sri
Living Beyond Sunday: Making Your Home a Holy Place by Adam and Haylee Minihan and David and Pamela Niles
The Road to Family Missionary Discipleship: Forming Marriages and Families to Share the Joy of the Gospel by Ryan and Mary Rose Verret with Peter Jesserer Smith
Amazing Grace for Married Couples by Jeff Cavins, Matthew Pinto, and Patti Armstrong
Heaven’s Song: Sexual Love as it was Meant to Be by Christopher West